Thursday 16 December 2010

What Goes Around Comes Around

There's a sick girl in my class. This article here describes her better than my own words.


The psychopath is one of the most fascinating and distressing problems of human experience. For the most part, a psychopath never remains attached to anyone or anything. They live a "predatory" lifestyle. They feel little or no regret, and little or no remorse - except when they are caught. They need relationships, but see people as obstacles to overcome and be eliminated. If not, they see people in terms of how they can be used. They use people for stimulation, to build their self-esteem and they invariably value people in terms of their material value (money, property, etc..).

A psychopath can have high verbal intelligence, but they typically lack "emotional intelligence". They can be expert in manipulating others by playing to their emotions. There is a shallow quality to the emotional aspect of their stories (i.e., how they felt, why they felt that way, or how others may have felt and why). The lack of emotional intelligence is the first good sign you may be dealing with a psychopath. A history of criminal behavior in which they do not seem to learn from their experience, but merely think about ways to not get caught is the second best sign.

The following is a list of items based on the research of Robert Hare, Ph.D. which is derived from the "The Hare Psychopathy Checklist-Revised, .1991, Toronto: Multi-Health Systems." These are the most highly researched and recognized characteristics of psychopathic personality and behavior.

* glibness/superficial charm
* grandiose sense of self worth
* need for stimulation/prone to boredom
* pathological lying
* conning/manipulative
* lack of remorse or guilt
* shallow emotional response
* callous/lack of empathy
* parasitic lifestyle
* poor behavioral controls
* promiscuous sexual behavior
* early behavioral problems
* lack of realistic long term goals
* impulsivity
* irresponsibility
* failure to accept responsibility for their own actions
* many short term relationships
* juvenile delinquency
* revocation of conditional release
* criminal versatility

Source: http://www.oregoncounseling.org/Handouts/PsychopathicPersonality.htm

She reminds me of the children in the movies like Orphan, Case 39 and Omen. People usually see them as normal kids but only a very lucky few (or unlucky, depends on how you see it) get to see the real devil nestled behind that calm pair of eyes.

In my case, the girl also uses other people's work and claim it to be hers. If anything happens to me, this blog entry is a testament that I (and a few others) know the truth about her. 

3 comments:

  1. omg.
    izni,seriously ada dlm class izni?
    takut la tgk bdk dlm cte case39 tu.evil gile.

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  2. one day she'll get what she deserve.

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  3. ha'ah zue & kak aliaa, tak pernah kenal orang camtu in real life.

    dia turn friends against each other. dia boleh nangis depan orang yg dia nak raih simpati then bila orang tu pergi, dia boleh berhenti nangis terus and buat benda lain. dia manipulate orang untuk benefit dia. recently izni nampak dia duk bodek one lecturer and dia buat muka bosan time lecturer tu cakap2 tapi tak pandang dia and then bila lecturer pandang dia, dia mula angguk2 senyum cakap sweet2. dia tengok izni nampak dia, dia buat muka stone macam budak orphan tu. creepy.

    tu baru some of the things she does. my friend tumbuk dinding geram sampai luka bila lecturer duk puji2 dia. the thought yg what goes around comes around yg makes me have faith that someday everyone will see the real her :(

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